Despite Calm Seen in Affairs Sex, Men At 7 It's Worried

 Men usually have a fairly high ego than women. They are quite active and do not have the anxiety visible in the in all respects. However, they also have the fear of some things, especially in matters of relationship with partner and problems in bed.Here are 7 fear experienced by men in sexual and relationship problems with spouse1. Fear of impotenceAnxiety about impotence ranks first because almost all men experience this. Ironically, the fear itself is the biggest cause of impotence. In 90 percent of cases of impotence, the cause is psychogenic. Only in 10 percent of cases the cause is biological.There is no way one can be sure of a man 'will' erection. It depends on how their responses in response to the situation during lovemaking. Some men may be overcome with a more active way in foreplay. Behind the fear of failure to get an erection, the most basic anxiety is rejected. Understanding and cooperation partner plays a very important role in preventing the onset of psychogenic impotence.2. Fear dissatisfied couplesImage of women as creatures who are often not satisfied in terms of actual sex is not entirely true. There is a wide variety of sexual needs between men and women. One of the factors that are important to women is how they understand their own bodies. They do not depend on male sexual demands. Should be mutually understood that each individual has sexual needs.3. Fear of losing self controlMany men have a secret fantasy to another woman. Often men will doubt their ability to resist sexual urges them to other women. Anxiety wife lost confidence a major factor, so that they are faced with indecision to choose between his fantasy or his marriage.4. Afraid of their wives interested in othersDominating husband certainly did not want to lose his wife. He constantly worried that his wife might have been having an affair and not get caught. Feelings of possessiveness and jealousy has been the cause of considerable suffering. A wife who understands this and can convince her husband, will have a happier relationship than if you respond with anger, aggression, and despair.5. Fear not 'normal'Many men want to know if they are 'similar' to other males in sexual behavior and whether they are 'normal'. The important thing is both husband and wife must understand whether couples feel hurt or not. If both partners are equally enjoy it, then nothing is wrong.6. Fear of premature ejaculationCauses of premature ejaculation and psychogenic almost always seen in men of all ages. Anxiety over the possibility of it is often the cause. The brain gets the signal that it is near, but for various emotional reasons inhibiting the mechanism fails to occur. Ways to address the most important is an understanding of the couple. It's to help themselves by analyzing his predicament and then learn to control.7. Fear of small penis sizeSize has always been considered as a parameter for masculinity and one's ability to satisfy their partner. Keep in mind that women's satisfaction does not depend on size. Conversely, too much can be a problem, in that it can hurt your partner. The fact is about 3-5 cm from the outside of the vagina is very sensitive to stimulation.Respond to sexual fears and uncooperative partner is the most important first step. But if excessive anxiety persists, consult immediately with the help of a counselor.